you must learn her.
you must know the reason why she is silent
you must trace her weakness spots
you must write to her
you must remind her that you are there
you must know how long it takes for her to give up
you must be there to hold her when she is about to
you must love her because many have tried and failed
and she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved
that she is worthy to be kept
and this is how you keep her.